What is the Nikkah?
The Nikkah is the Islamic marriage ceremony and the most sacred event of a Muslim wedding. An Imam or officiant conducts the ceremony, which includes recitation from the Quran, the Khutbah (sermon on marriage), and the signing of the Nikkah Nama (marriage contract).
Key Elements
Qubool Hai The Imam first performs the Ijab (proposal) — asking the groom if he accepts the bride in marriage with the agreed Mahr. The groom responds "Qubool hai" (I accept) three times. In some traditions, the bride's acceptance is obtained separately through her wali (guardian).
Nikkah Nama The marriage contract is signed by the bride, groom, and witnesses. It outlines the rights and responsibilities of both parties, including the Mahr.
Mahr The Mahr is a mandatory gift from the groom to the bride. It can be money, jewelry, property, or anything of value agreed upon by both parties. It is the bride's right and hers to keep.
Witnesses Two adult Muslim witnesses are required to be present and sign the Nikkah Nama. Some schools of thought accept one male and two female witnesses.
Timeline
- - Quran recitation: 10-15 min
- - Khutbah (sermon): 10-15 min
- - Qubool Hai and signing: 15-20 min
- - Dua (prayers) and blessings: 10 min
- - Total: 45-60 minutes
What to Wear
- - Bride: Red, white, or pastel bridal outfit with dupatta covering the head
- - Groom: Sherwani or suit with a cap or turban
- - Guests: Modest formal attire; women should cover their heads if in a mosque
Planning Tips
- - The Nikkah can be held at a mosque, home, or banquet hall
- - Book the Imam/officiant 3-6 months in advance
- - Prepare the Nikkah Nama document in advance
- - Decide on the Mahr amount early
- - Arrange for a separate signing area if the bride and groom are in different rooms (some traditions keep them separate until after the signing)